tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1362373399405910593.post14625051131583524..comments2023-12-11T20:18:37.225-06:00Comments on Shattering the Silence: It's Not FairRoger Mannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07591791342062150604noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1362373399405910593.post-46039141091323895492015-08-10T15:46:58.184-05:002015-08-10T15:46:58.184-05:00Alan I CAN relate. It is a process and I've ju...Alan I CAN relate. It is a process and I've just begun walking through it. It wasn't fair but nothing I can do now changes that. What is, Is what is, i guess it's now my responsibility to deal with it, and maybe be an encouragement to others. Listening to all of the guys on here helps.<br />DanDannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1362373399405910593.post-27704102506564052312015-08-06T19:12:59.240-05:002015-08-06T19:12:59.240-05:00Thanks Larry for sharing and I agree with you. I&#...Thanks Larry for sharing and I agree with you. I'm enjoying this blog and sharing and hearing from you guys!Alannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1362373399405910593.post-46676378004323946142015-08-06T15:46:42.174-05:002015-08-06T15:46:42.174-05:00I do understand. I do sometimes get stuck in the s...I do understand. I do sometimes get stuck in the self pity mode. It was unfair. It was wrong. It is hard to find other people who can relate. Glad I found this blog! I don't think it's as easy as "just move on" but it is a process of going forward. I have gotten stuck along the way but I believe God is with us & we can trust him. I can move forward with God's help. I need him to walk through the healing with me. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01689589533873053598noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1362373399405910593.post-6167883524805698592015-08-06T05:30:00.578-05:002015-08-06T05:30:00.578-05:00I can relate to this story in that I do feel and b...I can relate to this story in that I do feel and believe what was done to me was unfair however the Lord has been helping me to accept it as is and that it is my story. I think because the effects of molestation run so deep and affects literally every area of my life, it is a hard topic to deal with. Also, not knowing who I can talk to about it because people that have not experienced it don't understand the great effects it has on a person. I have a close friend that I talk to about my struggles but he doesn't understand and I think sometimes he thinks I should just move on but it's not that easy for me.<br /><br />I need love and to be loved. Growing up without a father has not helped in my life story either but has added to the hurt and pain that I've felt from being molested and its effects. Sometimes I just need someone to understand and not try to tell me just move on. It's a process.<br /><br />Can any of you relate?Alannoreply@blogger.com