tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1362373399405910593.post1655015994592787010..comments2023-12-11T20:18:37.225-06:00Comments on Shattering the Silence: Hiding the Pain (Part 1 of 2)Roger Mannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07591791342062150604noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1362373399405910593.post-51073991365498405952015-02-10T09:43:32.722-06:002015-02-10T09:43:32.722-06:00Duane emailed with this comment:
Thanks for this ...Duane emailed with this comment:<br /><br />Thanks for this entry today, it came at a very dark day to me. I have the bondage of Lust that I didn't ever admit, but today I realize that there are strong holds in my life that my abuse has made, that I can't see, but God can change. Dreams do speak and I think God can use them to speak to me when I won't listen to him any other way. I am over protective of my feelings and emotions. Guard yourself at all cost! It is not working anymore, I have to open up to heal.Roger Mannhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01211439402061154135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1362373399405910593.post-24586032128352927592015-02-07T14:21:33.675-06:002015-02-07T14:21:33.675-06:00I don't know if my former husband will ever he...I don't know if my former husband will ever heal as he confronts the sexual abuse from a priest, as I think it has slowing been coming to the surface with news through the years. He continues to run away, leaving me in 2012, divorcing me in 2014 and now living with another woman whose husband committed suicide in 2010. I try to look at things from his perspective and read your book, but it hurts to be left after 31 years of marriage and 5 more being together before marriage. There were so many moments of disrespect and anger from him towards me and the 4 children, but there were also sincere moments of love. He buried himself in work and volunteering, but had trouble making money in our first 15 years of marriage, which led to huge debt he is now trying to avoid responsibility for in some ways. I have avoided direct communication with him because it hurts me too much, but want to give him a Celebrate Recovery Bible, in hopes of his healing some day. Could it ever happen?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com