Shattering the Silence

(an encore post by Cecil Murphey) "Should I confront my perpetrator?" A man needs to decide that for himself. One female and o...

(an encore post by Cecil Murphey) "If I was abused by a man and it felt good, does that make me gay?" This is the question mos...

(an encore post by Cecil Murphey) "Why do some boys become victims and others aren't?" That's unanswerable, but I'...

(an encore post by Cecil Murphey) "Is it typical for molested boys to keep quiet and not tell?" It's definitely typical an...

(an encore post by Cecil Murphey) "If it happened only once is that sexual abuse?" Abuse is abuse, regardless of the number of...

(an encore post by Cecil Murphey) I once mentioned in a keynote at a conference that I had been sexually molested. I didn't dwell on t...

(an encore post by Cecil Murphey) Some statements irritate me. "You don't need to feel guilty," or "You have no reason...