tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1362373399405910593.post6931272076959670372..comments2023-12-11T20:18:37.225-06:00Comments on Shattering the Silence: InvisibleRoger Mannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07591791342062150604noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1362373399405910593.post-13205589093704436702012-02-17T09:13:28.897-06:002012-02-17T09:13:28.897-06:00Heather,
Thanks so much for your comment. I went f...Heather,<br />Thanks so much for your comment. I went from having no devenses (as in no boundaries what so ever) to building impervious walls that let noone and nothing in or out. Thankfully, as I have healed, I have been able to establish appropriate boundaries that allow me to enjoy friendship, trust of others and joy in my life.<br />TomTomsVoicetodayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05780390458295898993noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1362373399405910593.post-34146690560065937612012-02-17T08:49:51.009-06:002012-02-17T08:49:51.009-06:00I understand the need for invisibility. For me it ...I understand the need for invisibility. For me it meant the difference between life and death. I was threatened with death if I told what my father did. I also was so shamed and felt I was the only one (little did I know that more than one of four of my peers were similarly abused), so I tried to appear normal. I wanted friends but kids saw through my act. I was isolated and alone - finally finding safety in that. It took years before I dared let my defenses down even a bit. Thank you for sharing your story. It touches me in the depths of my being.Heather Marstenhttp://www.heathermarsten.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.com