tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1362373399405910593.post7176015079563653852..comments2023-12-11T20:18:37.225-06:00Comments on Shattering the Silence: "Who Would Believe Kids?"Roger Mannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07591791342062150604noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1362373399405910593.post-8288616286618596442014-10-09T23:16:06.470-05:002014-10-09T23:16:06.470-05:00I hear that a lot from guys who were abused as kid...I hear that a lot from guys who were abused as kids. Many have said and I agree with them that to tell and not be believed, even ridiculed or blamed is many times worse than what actually happened and hurts deeply. It can leave one feeling alone, betrayed, abandoned and eventually very angry. It is like being abused all over again.Roger Mannhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07591791342062150604noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1362373399405910593.post-26741094602869698152014-10-07T14:40:28.016-05:002014-10-07T14:40:28.016-05:00I definitely didn't think my mom would believe...I definitely didn't think my mom would believe me. She was emotionally gone and hard/cold. When I started going through serious psychological issues and the pain came out, my mom saw my anger and thought I wanted revenge. She smiled and said it in such an insensitive manner.<br /><br />She hasn't talked to me about it since. Fortunately I had my dad, maybe I focus too much on the effect my mother had on me. But it makes me angry. I'm slowly healing and forgiving her, but it's hard.Mikenoreply@blogger.com