I hurt for a long time because of childhood sexual abuse. Now I want to provide a safe place for hurting men to connect with other survivors of sexual abuse. Talk to us. You don't have to use your real name to share your experiences or ask questions.


I have listed books below that you may find helpful.

When a Man You Love Was Abused: A Woman's Guide to Helping Him Overcome Childhood Sexual Molestation by Cecil Murphey (Grand Rapids, MI: Kregel Publications, 2010).

Healing a Man's Heart by Thomas Edward (Summerville, SC: Holy Fire Publishing, 2009).

Broken Boys/Mending Men: Recovery from Childhood Sexual Abuse by Stephen D. Grubman-Black (The Blackburn Press, 2002).

Abused Boys: The Neglected Victims of Sexual Abuse by Mic Hunter (New York: Fawcett Books, 1990).

Beyond Betrayal: Taking Charge of Your Life After Boyhood Sexual Abuse by Richard B. Gartner, Ph.D. (Hoboken, NJ: John Wiley & Sons, 2005).

Victims No Longer: The Classic Guide for Men Recovering from Sexual Child Abuse, updated and revised by Mike Lew (New York: HarperCollins, 2004).

A Wounded Heart: Hope for Adult Victims of Childhood Sexual Abuse, revised and updated, by Dr. Dan b. Allender (Colorado Springs, CO: NavPress, 1995).

Wounded Boys Heroic Men: A Man’s Guide to Recovering from Child Abuse by Daniel Jay Sonkin, Ph.D. (Avon, MA: Adams Media, 1998).


Steve Grubman-Black said...

Hi there. You have always been a very courageous man and I am so pleased with your blog.
I do have one request: Since my book, Broken Boys/Mending Men, has remained in print since 1990, I wish you had included it in your list of references.
In brotherhood,
Steve Grubman-Black

Twila Belk said...

Thanks for your comment, Steve. Cec asked me to add your book to the list of recommended resources. He says he loves your book and is happy that it's still in print.

Anonymous said...

Hello, Cec
So glad to see your newest blog up and running, regarding a most important but little discussed topic. We met at a recent writer's conference and discussed our common interests and experiences, and I came away a better man for it. I would be happy to share my story, at your request.

Cecil Murphey said...

Anonymous: Please send me your story--use your name or not as you choose. cmurphey@comcast.net or cec_haraka@msn.com

Hayden said...

Thank you for the list, I'm going to ask my foster parents if we can check some of these out.